Some men struggle each day watching the love of their life flock around with other guys knowing that you are the person that really does love her. Jealousy, hatred, and a feeling of loss might all come to life during this time. But what you need to do is win that person's heart.
- Biggest thing is "DON'T COME ON TOO STRONG EARLY". Let the relationship develop. Coming on too strong early will almost certainly creep her out.
- Be Brave. Most girls like guys with confidence, not an ego. Just walk up to her and start a simple conversation.
- Do not ever treat her as she were merely an item.
- Prove that you really like her and are not simply crushing or lusting for her. Ask her about herself, talk to her, don't just move in for the kiss: actually listen to her and look her in the eye.
- Memorize her eye color. Do this by looking at them as much as you can when your talking with her. It wouldn't be a bad idea to do this for every woman you meet.
- Care for Her: Ask her about her day. It's a simple way to show her that you are interested in what she does. When she starts to talk, you must give her your full attention. Look her in the eye and don't check anyone else out! And most importantly, don't interrupt! Ask her questions about it though, because it will show her that you are concerned. Offer to help her.
- Show respect for other girls too. When she realizes that other girls take interest in you then she will automatically get to the point where you want her to be.
- Make sure to be good friends with her friends. If her friends like you, you'll have a better chance of winning her over. After all, girls often turn to their friends for advice and for a second opinion. So, it's best if her friends have a high opinion of you, right?
- Make her feel like the most beautiful thing in the world. You can actually directly say that. Girls LOVE to be complimented and to know that they are beautiful, but don't over-do it, particularly in a new friendship, then you just feel awkward and can't hold a conversation about something else. Just saying something like "you look really nice today" will make her happy. As long as you're sincere. Because if you are not, they will not trust your opinion on other things.
- Make sure she feels safe with you. Most girls want to have someone they can trust and turn to when something goes wrong. And even when she is having a good day let her know you're interested in how she's doing. If you know that she has plans after work or school, ask her how it went. If you let on that you like her, she'll eventually pick up on the hints. You don't even have to come out and say it. She'll pick up on it, and that's the way it should be. Girls are usually smart with things like this...TRUST ME.
